Bottoming is a rite of passage most gay men make at some point in their lives. Some people, especially fundy Christians, see virginity as some kind of trump card to hold over potential suiters, a sacred act that must take place only after marriage. We like to think of losing our virginity as this magical thing between two people who are deeply in love, but the reality is, very few of us actually keep in close contact with the guys who popped our cherries.
Last summer, I had a Damascene moment in Soho Square. My eyes wandered the lengths of intertwined couples' bodies as they lay kissing in the grass, my peripheral vision softening to the mass of comfortable, happy gay men, and my heart pounded as it sank. Because I'm a gay man in my late 20s who has never had any kind of intimate relationship.
Deep-dish pizza, soaring skyscrapers, vibrant music festivals and … the first officially recognized gay village? Yes, Gay Chicago might not be your first thought when considering gay hotspots in the USA where you can just be yourself, but after you have immersed yourself in the frenzied energy of the Boystown gaybourhood you will soon be wondering how the Windy City managed to keep its fabulousness under wraps for so long…. As the heart of the Chicago LGBT community, Boystown boasts everything from boutique shopping and trend-setting dining to alluring spas and irresistible after-hours entertainment in every form imaginable — and no Gay Chicago travel plans would be complete without at least one night out here.
I was 21 when I met Jacob. He was the sort of guy the year-old closeted version of me had fantasized about — a brooding former model who was late enough into his twenties to be retired, had probably been mistaken for Brandon Boyd inand was confident enough to wave at me from across the bar. My hands were literally shaking.
My partner and I will be spending our honeymoon in St. John this october. We are looking to rent a cottage because we want a quiet retreat with privacy.
Author Jens Andersen, author of the book which has just been published in Germany, says the author fell in love with both men and women, though he may well have remained a virgin all his life. The book, which will be published in English in April, states that Andersen had infatuations with both men and women but could not bring himself to overcome societal strictures against homosexuality even if he could not bring himself to marry a woman. In an almost Freudian manner, Andersen channeled his sexual energies into his writing, creating some of the finest fairy-tale fiction ever written.
A fresh, informative and comprehensive guide to gay life in the UK; everything from pubs and clubs to rights for gay partners, adoption, media, support groups and coming out. The first such guide from a mainstream publisher, it includes a range of listings as well as invaluable information on the whole range of issues gay people have to face. The book also includes sections on sex, fashion and image, politics, civil rights, lifestyle, work, the media and celebrity.
Sex between men is a beautiful, passionate, awesome thing. Do you want to try anal sex? Do you want to kiss, suck, rub, or touch? What do you try first?
Known as the Cradle of the Renaissance and for oozing romance, charm and style — Gay Florence might also be the gayest city in Italy! Forget Rome or Milanin Florence, you can find fashion and high couture stores everywhere; then there is the Polimoda Fashion School and all of the theaters, museums, art masterpiece and antique markets. In fact, is widely believed that Michaelangelo was gay, and after staring at the famous David statue we could easily believe it.